Would you really body shame a 7-year old?????

I live in a country where from the birth, a girl is taught what she can and has to do and what she can’t do and how she should present herself. She is taught how to do makeups and cook. It’s not like that She is not given opportunities as boys and son(s) of the family she is, but at the end her “success” and her “career” is measured on what her husband is and how many of her children are boys.

I don’t really go to the social gathering, because that place is crowded with people who really wants to make conversation. And I really don’t like talking to those people who still think the domain for girl/ women is kitchen and her married life only and that irritates the hell out of me.

Types of Friends on Your Facebook

I don't really use facebook as much as I used to do. But I know types of facebook friend on everyone's facebook account. Now let's go to list shall we?

The Over Share:

Why being the Full Time Student sucks?

I've been a student as long as i remember. Even though it is the most important part of my life sometimes i hate it so much. and the reason I hate being a full time student are explained below:

Fifty things i've learned

 Things I’ve learned in my life(so far):

• You can’t beg anyone to be in your life.
• Time heals everything.
• No matter how good of a person you are, people will find a reason to hate you.
• Comfort zone will always there to hold you down.
• You can’t help a person if they don’t want your help but need one.
• Don’t take

Perks of having older sibling(s)

I have an elder sister and a elder brother nine years and five years older than me, and the perks of having older siblings are:

1.You are never alone

                They are the constant companion in your life. You will never be alone even if you want to. They will always have you back.

2.They are overprotective

                If you are with your sibling and someone checks you out or even look at you strangely, they will give the death stare to that person who are checking you.

Ten things everybody should know

Let's go straight to the point, shall we?

1.Cook

You need to learn cook, especially boys (because girls are awesome they will know how to feed themselves) because there will not always women in your life to cook food for you. Learn basic things at least. Food is the closest thing to warmth of love.

15 Reasons why being single rocks!

I love ‘love’. But for following reasons being single is better than having a relationship (my version).

1.Flirt with anyone you like

When you meet some cute guy you can flirt anyway you like if you are single if you are not then you are in trouble with yourself.

2.Can have multiple crushes

Women Crush Wednesday

I never thought i will ever make this public, but here i am writing this... I'm not embarrassed but I think it will be cringe moment if you brought this up with me, face to face.

As long as I remember, she was the prettiest girl in the colony, where I lived. She was my sister’s best friend’s older sister. She was much elder than me, I was just a six-seven-year-old kid and she had finished her school level at that time. She had dark, long, straight black hair which she usually used to

Teej

Today is Teej, for overall Hindu female either married or unmarried women, a teenager or a girl it is their festival. In this day all the women fast for the long life of their husband and unmarried girls fast so they will get a good husband and have a good future with them.  The person taking this fast will neither eat nor drink, not even a drop of water. It is believed that fasting this way god will be pleased and grant the wish of the fasting person. Since it is very unhealthy not to eat and drink for a whole day straight, priests and Gurus encourage to eat fruits and water to the person who is fasting. Health conscious people, weak women, pregnant women, elder women and ill women can eat some foods which are rated as ‘ok to eat’ like rice pudding, milk product, yoghurt, Sabudana, fruits etc. Basically don’t eat salt, meat, garlic, tomato, onion. This day women would go to the Shiva Temple and if they can they will go to Pashupatinath temple.

some hindu women performing a teej ritual

It is believed that this tradition was started by our Goddess Parvathi when she fasted for days without eating or drinking anything so she will get married to Lord Shiva. And after this she did got married to the Lord Shiva and lived happily with her husband.

The fast starts with taking a shower in the morning and wearing a pure clothes which usually means clean, washed clothes. Since it is Teej, the choice of color is Red for clothes. Married women get ready in Red Sari, beads, golds, bangles, anklet, tika, wear makeups and etc. And goes to the Temple. Then they gather around sing folk songs about Teej and dance.

At the evening, the fasting women will have to lit a diyo and pray to god again. Then they end their fast by drinking water washed from their husband’s foot, and eat only fruits as dinner.  The fast ends properly when they take bath the next day.

Teej:Dar khane Din

Tomorrow is Teej. So today is ‘Dar khane din’ where every younger female relatives of a family are invited and served with delicious foods (‘dar’) and deserts and presented with gifts like tika(bindi in Hindi), bangles, pote (necklace of beads) etc. The food basically involves proteins, carbohydrate, and hydrating fruits like mutton, fish, rice/pulao, rice pudding, spinach, cucumber pickle and some Indian sweets. The reason to include all those things to eat today so that it will be easier to take fast tomorrow because you cannot eat or drink a thing tomorrow.

Normally, people don’t eat meat product day before their fast but for Teej, it’s ok to eat meat product. In Kathmandu, and other city area new tradition has been introduced to arrange this ‘Dar’ program from like months beforehand by many women clubs and women related organization. And women

More on how we celebrate Teej tomorrow. Stay tuned!

The Jungle Book

I know I am a little too late for the review of this movie, many people had watched and reviewed as soon as the movie came out but not me. When people say it’s a good movie I just can’t watch it right away because my hopes gets high I fear I will end up disliking the movie myself. Also I waited to watch this movie because it a movie about Mowgli and that is a concept I never really understood. I mean it’s a story about a boy and wild animals I mean how does that make sense? But then again it is just a fantasy film. Ok now let’s talk about ‘The Jungle Book’ movie.

For me movie The Jungle book is about a boy and his journey to manhood. The film starts with Mowgli running with the wolf pack he wants to continue the legacy of the wolf pack; he wants to be a wolf. But, to become a wolf, first he must accept that he is a human and he cannot fight or protect his friends and family by becoming something he is not.

We get to see his guardian Bagheera, a black panther who introduced Mowgli as a child to the wolf pack to where he is raised by wolf Raksha who is also a mother to his pups. 

When Shere Khan threatens the pack,because of the Mowgli cuz he is a human child, He makes his own choice to leave the pack for good to keep his family safe.

Before leaving the jungle, the emotional scene between Raksha and Mowgli is well shot and Neel Sethi who is playing the role of Mowgli is very good actor and can make any scene and his expressions believable. I don’t know why but emotional scene of a mother always kills me inside.

Before leaving the pack Raksha says to his son Mowgli

 “Never forget this, You’re mine, mine to me. No matter where you go or what they may call you, you’ll always be my son.”